THE BALANCING ACT
Building Balance for Better Living


MARCH 2007


In This Issue....

Always Personal...Drink up.

Always Professional...Generational tips.

Forever Playful...20 fun activities!

 

 

 

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 Brent O'Bannon, MBS

(Author, Speaker, Counselor/Coach)

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March 20 Guaranty Bank -  Dealing with Difficult People

March 21 Tyco- Substance Abuse in the Workplace

March 22 Tyco- Substance Abuse in the Workplace

March 29 Samsung- Managing Family Conflict

 

 


Always Personal…

I finished playing two grueling tennis matches in the heat and humidity of Austin Texas. My son and I stopped at a store for Gatorade. As I walked into the store a cramp attacked my leg, then my stomach. Embarrassed, I hobbled back outside the door and fell down with cramps in my entire body.

Did you realize that a lack of water is the #1 trigger of daytime fatigue? Most people suffer from chronic dehydration of water. A mere 2% drop in body water can trigger fuzzy memory, irritability, and lack of focus even on the computer screen. If you want to restore personal balance read and practice these top ten tips to drink more water.

1. Drinking water helps you loose weight. Drinking 8-10 glasses of water decreases appetite and increases metabolism and digestion.

2. Drinking water flushes out toxins. Soft drinks, tea, and alcohol are diuretics that dehydrate the body. Drinking water flushes out the kidneys and liver.

3. Drinking water lubricates joints and muscles. Drinking water before and after exercise helps prevent muscle cramps and increase lubrication in joints.

4. Drinking water helps maintain healthier skin. Water moisturizes skin from the inside out. Water is a great way to stave off wrinkles and increase elasticity.

5. Drinking water helps you stay regular. Water makes bowel movements softer and helps prevent constipation.

6. Drinking water regulates body temperature. You can burn more calories when drinking extra cold or extra hot water.

7. Drinking water increases energy. Water makes up 85% of your brain, 80% of your blood, and 70% of lean muscle. Water increases alertness, focus, and strength.

8. Drinking water decreases risk of heart attack. Research at Loma Linda University found those who drank 5 glasses or more a day of water were less likely to die of heart attack or heart disease.

9. Drinking water fights sickness. Drinking more  water decrease chances of getting kidney stones, urinary tract infections, and controls fever.

10. Drinking water needs to be balanced. Drinking too much water can create a dangerous water intoxication. A person can become addicted. The term is called, "aquaholics." Drinking too little water causes chronic cellular dehydration. Drink a balanced amount of water at all times.

Finally, my son called 911 for his whining weekend warrior dad. After 8 hours in the emergency room, 13 bags of glucose, the doctor told me I almost died from kidney failure from dehydration. Lesson learned. Drink up!!!

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Always Professional…

Professionals need to know how to deal with people!

Dealing with people takes emotional intelligence, personality perception, and diversity awareness. One aspect of diversity is generational influence. The generation we grow up in creates a mindset. It's important to understand generational differences to effectively work with customers, co-workers, and the community. The common generations are: The Matures (born prior to 1945), The Baby Boomers (born 1946-1964), The Generation X (born 1965-1980), The Millennials (born 1981-1999). I will highlight some major mindsets of each generation in the next four issues. This months generation spotlight is Generation X (born 1965-1980).

Generation X has experienced many tragedies in their time. Events such as civil rights, anti-war protests, Watergate, inflation, massive layoffs, and the Challenger tragedy. Generation X has seen the struggle of major institutions of family, church, and government. 40% of generation X are children of divorce and most are latch key kids. They learned to be resourceful. Xers work to live rather than living to work. They want fun to balance out the hard realities of the world. Generation X has some experience with technology, though not as strong as the Millenials.

The basic themes of Generation X are: life is uncertain, balance is important, live for the moment, right and wrong is based on the person's context, every job is a contract, and save, save, save.

Tips to deal with Generation X:

1. Build trust with Generation X. They will watch to see if your words and actions match. They are skeptical of traditional institutions. They will not give you loyalty until they know they can trust you.

2. Build balance with Generation X. They want more freedom to make their own choices. They want opportunity to balance work and personal life. If not given freedom to balance they will not be loyal to the work place.

3. Build perspective with Generation X. The Xers see life from each individual's perspective rather than a set of values that are black and white. Generation X can help your work team, volunteer organization, and family see the gray in the middle of a black and white world.

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Forever Playful…

My wife and I were watching a fun sitcom called, King of Queens. The couple were having an argument, feeling distant, and wondering if they still had anything in common. They had an idea. Each of them individually would write a list of 20 things they liked to do and  compare them.

What a great idea! Could you write 20 fun activities and discuss the results with your significant other or best friend?

Rhonda and I did the activity. It was a surprisingly fun moment for the both of us! At first we both giggled because it was harder than we thought to think of 20 fun activities. Finally we wrote our 20 and shared. The sharing was half the fun. Wow, we had 11 fun activities (that's 55%) out of 20 in common. The fun activities we had in common were; reading, travel, going out with friends, tasting new wines, hosting parties, going to church, watching a movie together, going out to a nice dinner, cooking/grilling together,  swimming/laying out in the sun, and exercising.

In the sitcom, King of Queens, they only came up with one fun activity they had in common. Though disappointing, the couple made a commitment to keep learning new fun activities they could share. Rhonda and I had more in common than we realized. Remember, playful balance is having fun activities that you enjoy alone, with friends, as well as with your significant other.

Would you like to lighten up your next meeting with Brent's keynote?

 Giggles and Grins: How to lighten up with laughter and leisure in a terminally serious world

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